Marriage is a mystery

๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ง๐™ง๐™ž๐™–๐™œ๐™š ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™– ๐™ข๐™ฎ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ!

As I was analysing the current scenario, I had a feelings of watching a drama fully scripted to convince the audience. One moment that caught all my attention was โ€œmarriageโ€. of course I am right to say that it was one of the fundamental unit in our life; however I was stunned by it, as many people had a notion of marriage like that of a race. The hunger for marriage had ruined lots of life often leading to divorce, family conflict, and even to that of suicide. Marriage is right but marrying a wrong people had been a problem, choosing wrong person lead to divorce, where women's are being criticized and misjudged by the society; mans probably end up either in jail or they pay huge alimony.

A couple stays in a relation for a year, or less than that ;after that they marry to spend their life together, crucial thing that they missed out prior to wedding is that; in some cases they are about to see new version of person right after marriage. Eagerness for marriage are readily followed by numerous obstacles that leads to unhealthy problems within the family member. Promises made before the weddings are surprisingly fading, bond between the couples are vanishing faster than the rainbow. Arrows of love seems to miss its target and hit the wrong ones, pains of miss target are beared by couples as fate had faded cursing their entire life.

Love songs had gradually transited to the songs of sorrow heard throughout the society; filling the hearts of child with the life of misery intact to defamation from all their mates. From discussions to debate, arguments to misunderstanding, fights to injury and from joy to cry; time evolved faster than lightning that is beyond every expectation of them.

Hence I just wanted to convey my simple message to every reader that; marriage isnโ€™t a competition, don't race to win it faster, take your own time to decide the best for the betterment of yourself. Marrying a right person can always be right even when you are wrong. Comforts of life lies in marriage, only if you made a right choice. If you are still waiting for marriage, you are standing in a middle of road; so it would be better if you use your compass to locate your destination than to follow a crowd that drives you out of your destiny.

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